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I have just found out my husband has been chatting and maybe planning to me someone online. I don't know where to turn. Help! would like some advice from someone who has been here.
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Confront him, but make sure you have incontrovertable evidence. The typical reaction is to deny the truth. Then, get on the path to recovery outlined in the link in my signature line.
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I have confronted him with very damaging evidence. After two days of denial he finially admitted to me he has been chatting and flirting with meeting with someone. This was not the first time either, four years ago i discoverd him in a similar situation(although not as obscene as this one) and he did ask for forgivness and i did forgive him. Now I question if he was sincere the first time.
I feel so horribly betrayed by this, i can not concieve how i can ever trust this man agian?
He has made an appointment to go and talk to our Pastor this week, mostly he says so he can straighten himself out. Is he sincere? I can't tell any more.
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Click on the link in my signature line.
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If he has an appointment to talk to your pastor, I think this is a good sign. But I would want to talk to the pastor too - to make sure that your H is spilling the whole story. If he realizes he needs to work on himself - that is so *good*. Most betrayers think that they don't have a problem, and tend to blame the victim (rationalizations).
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