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ws freaking out
#1076236 06/02/03 08:46 PM
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My ws is absolutely outraged that I told our D (20) that she spend the weekend with OM. WS feels that what she does is none of our D's business and that I should say nothing about all the lies of her whereabouts. My D is heartbroken she's been lied to and that her mom is continuing an affair. Our daughter has strong morals and feels betrayed herself. Am I wrong just stating some very general facts to my 20 year old daughter? Why would her mom be so against the truth?
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Me BS 51
WS 47
married 24 years
D-Day #1 1980
D-Day #2 1981
D-Day #3 1987
D-Day #4 April 2003

<small>[ June 02, 2003, 08:48 PM: Message edited by: Joquin1 ]</small>
Re: ws freaking out
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She doesn't want to face the consequences of her skanky behavior. Your daughter should know this stuff. Your wife's issue is with the TRUTH, not you.
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She doesn't want it brought to light, for fear she'd have to feel even more guilty, and maybe have to (gasp) end it.
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I agree with the above. 20 year olds can know the truth, the whole truth.
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#1076240 06/03/03 05:13 AM
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Thanks for the support. WS emailed back and said that she still would not say anything "bad" to D about me but would let me know if that changed. I emailed back and said I don't think there is anything I haven't told D anyway like there was something I needed to hide.
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Me BS 51
WS 47
married 24 years
D-Day #1 1980
D-Day #2 1981
D-Day #3 1987
D-Day #4 April 2003
Informal separation 6/1/03
Asked WS to move out

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Re: ws freaking out
#1076241 06/03/03 05:19 AM
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you don't have to hide it from her.
your not going to be an enabler are you.
your not doing anything wrong, your speaking the
truth to her is all.

It is sad but I think her daughter needs to be told, maybe now things might change with her knowing it is out in the open.

Especially if she has talked the talk to the daughter and is not walking the walk herself..
take care of you..
Keep on keeping on. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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