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I thought I would try this post here. I'm the WS my husband and have been working hard on M the books and the workbook but now I'm haveing some problems from his family now they want to start bring things up and I'm not dealing well with this at all, it started last night and of course there is never a good time to talk about this but today is our 8 yr anniversary so now I just want to crawl in a hole. I don't want him to be in the middle with his family and me. I feel like all I should have to worry about is my H and our boys, am I way off??
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Hi 3boys,
Relationship builidng comes on many levels. Looks like you and your H need to find out what options there are for this with his family.
Work with an MC or even phone the Harley's.
Don't speak for your H on this one. Remember you are a parent also, how would you feel if it were one of your boys out there in his situation?
Now realize that understanding patience and compassion is what you need to display but that takes time.
Is conflict avoiding an issue with any in your family?
Maybe if you'd share a bit more of your situation it might give us a clearer picture.
JMHO,
L.
<small>[ June 17, 2003, 12:38 PM: Message edited by: Orchid ]</small>
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