Rly,
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">You are truly amazing. How can you find it in yourself to forgive your W for 3 A's.</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">My God is truely amazing. I found out about the first two nearly 8 years after they happened. they were ONS while away on business, and under the curcumstances I can see why she felt like I didn't love her. But that didn't excuse her from the decisions she made. I also knew that the OP weren't in her life any more.
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I would think the pain is too unbareable?</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I thought it would be. I even considered leaving her and knew I had every right to. But as I left to literally beat the living crap out of OM, I really did hear "that still small voice" telling me that if I did go there my M would really be over. God told me He had plans for us and not to give up.
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Why does she do this to you? You are an amazing guy, I don't think many of us wouldn't wonder..."Da Hell with EN's she may have a problem."</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Well, w/o going into detail, she was never loved by anyone the way a woman was supposed to be loved by a man. Before we met or even after we got married. No-one taught me what a real H was supposed to be like. I never knew; and I didn't know I never knew. We've been married fro over 19 years, I've been a Christian for over 16 years and no-one ever explained to me what God's idea of M was all about.
I now have a much better grasp of what M is and isn't. Why God designed M and how it helps give us a picture of our relationship with Him.
Yes my W has issues, but I wasn't the man she needed me to be and the enemy got his claws on her. After I figured that out, how could I leave the woman I said I'd be there for through better or worse and face my Lord? I couldn't tell my Lord that I had done everything in the power he gave me to protect her and to offer her back to Him pure and holy(Eph. 5:25)
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">You are truly what a christian is all about.</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Thanks for the compliment, but it truely is what He has done in me.
Blessings to you.
S&C
