Holiday @ Mum's & Dad's was great. Got a lot accomplished.

Anyways, I am now learning towards talking divorce. Things that keep running through my mind:

*We disagreed about having a family. WH did not want a family 1 year ago.
*What if we reconcile, have a family and he did this again?
*I am worried about the (apparent) porn/Asian girl problem. What if we had a couple of daughters ... with Chinese features??

Other questions on my mind:
* What are the signs it is time to move from Plan B to Plan D?
* If you have little respect left for WH, can't see a shared future, have become extremely embarrassed/humiliated by the A situation and feel sick at the thought of living with WH ... would this indicate it is time to move out of Plan B?
* Meeting with WH concerning division of assets ... what is the best way to do this? Should I take a witness?

The thing is, I still have a tiny shred of hope - mustard seed size if you will. I don't want to end Plan B a day too early JUST IN CASE. But just want this whole ordeal to end.