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#1082258 07/15/03 02:15 AM
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My husband has stated that he would want custody of son, but is giving me custody out of the goodness of his heart and will not fight me for him. Husband leaves saturday headed for his new duty station on the east coast and told me he plans to have no contact with me or son from then on. I will be going into plan b when he leaves and have started working on my letter.

It just blows me mind that he can say he wants to be a part of son's life and then say it hurts to much to talk to or be near son. Husband has said he doesn't like being around me and son. Why does he say this?

The affair's been over for a year. I have acknowledged how i contributed to the marriage falling apart but he still wants a divorce. Is this normal? Now all he talks about is the child support and if I'm ready yet to file for divorce.

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It blows my mind too Luna. Don't skip the Plan B....but don't raise your expectations either because he appears that this selfish man will just keep going. I am sad for you and your son, but hope that resolution will bring new opportunities for you. hugs.


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