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It's refreshing to see that it is not only women who are obsessed with their bodies!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
I dated a guy once who was VERY large (the size of my wrist... not kidding), and he was terrible!!! I really believe that it's not the size of the wand, but the magic it possesses!!!
I had a huge complex about myself after my H's A... I was too fat, too ugly, etc. But over the last 14 months my confidence has grown so much that my H tells me I am the sexiest woman on earth!!! He said that confidence is sexy!!! Granted I would like a larger chest... flatter stomach... etc, but I have stopped comparing myself to the FOW... there is NO comparison!!!
Be confident in yourself,(not cocky... um, no pun intended) and you will drive your W crazy!!! Size really does NOT matter... it's what you do with what you have!!!
JMVHO...
mac the wife
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Let's turn things around a little bit and remember that an important element that makes a WW vulnerable to an A is how she views herself in the desirability department. So while we BH's worry about the size of our penis, the WW's were probably worrying about their desirability to other men. Something to think about.
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Coffee,
I agree, I probably did not pay enough attention to my wife. But, I hate to think that she may have favorable memories of her sexual encounter with OM b/c he was bigger, better, etc. I guess I am jealous.
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