Oh what a day> Ugh!!! A new dollar store opened a few blocks from me so I decided to drive over this morning and check it out. The minute I walked in there stood the former OW. Grrr! She turned beet red and bolted out the door. I had to laugh to myself at how foolish this 52 year old woman acts.

So all was well and I looked around, picked up a few things and left. When I got outside, I ran into my former boyfriend, I'm talking former as in almost 25 years ago. I stood talking with him and his WIFE for about 15 minutes, got into my car and drove home.

When I walked in the door, oldest daughter said "Dad called you 3 times, he said you aren't answering your cell phone (it was at home charging), he sounded upset, you better call him". Since H was at work, I couldn't imagine what was wrong. I called and he immediately went off on me screaming at me for "flirting and hanging all over that Adam guy". I was speechless.

I didn't know whether to defend myself or blow up too. I asked, already knowing the answer, "where did you hear these lies?" The former OW called him at work, from her cell phone and told him these lies!! Oh my god I'm so angry. I just don't know who, what or why to be more angry about.

How dare she call him and lie about me, how dare he allow her to call him and how dare he listen to her lies, how dare she hide and spy on me. Now he is angry at me and acts as if I have no right to be upset that this psycho woman not only spied on me, but called him and lied about it all. I don't even know where to begin handling this one.

TD,

Time to keep your cool and innocence. Tell him something like: "yep that guy was real nice. Chatted with him and his W for a long time. Now who gave you that info? His W was the one with her arm around him. Why? She was reaching for his wallet so she could go shopping.

Now can I come get yours the same way or would you like to hand it over peacefully? And by the way........ tell Ow she needs her eyes examined and her head! LOL!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> "

JMHO,
L.

<small>[ July 27, 2003, 01:27 AM: Message edited by: Orchid ]</small>

well dear it looks like you should be a bit mad at both of them and even yourself maybe? why even talk to another man when you knew that other woman was lurking about? but on the other hand your hubby should not have taken her phone call and she should not have called him. what a twisted mess eh? have you tried to explain to your hubby that it was innocent and that the other woman was making up stories. it seems like your hubby hasn't cut off contact with her due to this and the message you posted about the card a few weeks ago. plan b?

Looks to me as though the OW was shifting the Blame, trying to make you look bad so that she wouldn't look so bad. Do not take her personally.

Like Orchid, the angel, said, keep it cool and lite. You did nothing wrong, so act that way.

Hang in there Tiny.

xo
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