As a betrayed spouse, I continually battle with whether my H is truly out of the fog or just experiencing momentary breaks in the fog. I've been responding to posts by Jion35 on PlanA/Plan B. If anyone can read his posts and comment back to me, I'd appreciate it. His story sounds remarkably like my own, from my WS point of view. At least, I can somewhat following where my H's is coming from.

I appreciate all your help. Karena referred me to the many on here like Star*Fish, Redhat, etc., etc. who offered her great advice. I could use some as well.