can anyone tell me, how long it takes for real life to kick in, when you are a husband who has left his wife,and is living with the ow, and has been for 12 weeks, but only got caught 4 weeks ago?And has just been to spain for 2 weeks with ow?
my husband has lied and lied for 14 weeks in total. Swore blind there was no-one else.turns out he is with a co-worker. He told her our marriage was over. Told me, it wasn't.
He did everything to cover his tracks and eventually I decided to track him down and I found him in a very intimate position with her. I was looking through their window. He panicked and she told me that h had told her that I had chucked him out of our home.
Liar, liar, so now he wants me to divorce him on the grounds of his adultery.I wasn't going to, but I've since changed my mind. What is the point of holding on, it would just make him hate me more.
I have kept my dignity in all this, but I have today sent him an e-mail, telling him that he can divorce me. HE has lost ME. He has never thought of it this way round. He has been secure in the knowledge that I have always wanted to restore the marriage.
Can anyone tell me what he may be thinking? He seemed bothered at first and now that I have exposed him, (and our children, who are all grown, now know,)he seems to hate me and is justifying his actions by saying that he hasn't loved me for the last 15 years of our 20 year marriage !!!!
I've e-mailed him the thread from 'foreverhers'. I'm sure he will just delete it. Where are you God? Ive been praying to you. I don't think that God wants us to be together. thisso.