I spoke with my contact at the courthouse a short while ago, and she told me that stbxH is still in jail.

Although he was scheduled to appear before a judge today, on the child porn possession charges, a bail hearing has been set for tomorrow instead.

I am to call her after lunch tomorrow, to find out the next stage. Whether or not he'll receive bail again, is anyone's guess. To a certain degree, I don't care either way... as long as if he does get out, his conditions are upped too.

So... I won't be able to update more until Tuesday afternoon sometime. And even then, I don't know when (especially since I'll be attending Shyann's funeral and internment which starts at 11am, followed by a reception in our townhouse complex).

Karen

p.s. I'm so glad to have MB to come to. Even though many of you must be getting just as tired of hearing about stbxH as I am <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> , it sure is great for my healing to be able to talk about it on here.

<small>[ August 28, 2003, 09:26 AM: Message edited by: Topie25 ]</small>

Karen

We never tire of hearing from you, and frankly it makes my own situation seem so normal in comparison <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

I will be thinking of you during these difficult days.

Lisa

Take care of you Topie. Glad to hear the situation is being righted. You are lucky law enforcement is on your side.

Take care and continue on your upward walk!

<img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Honey

Thanks for the replies Lisa and Honey. It's always good to hear from both of you. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

I spoke to my courthouse contact this afternoon, and as of 2:30pm, his bail hearing hadn't yet occurred. The office was only open until 5pm, and since I didn't hear back from her, I don't know what happened.

Either his bail hearing got put over until tomorrow sometime, or it happened and the conditions are the same, or different <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> , or he didn't get bail this time. I can't think of many other possibilities.

I'll update when I know more. Hopefully tomorrow afternoon.

Karen

As of noon today, his bail hearing hasn't yet been heard. Hmmm... makes me wonder if they're purposely putting it off (if they can do that), until the information regarding the child molestation has gone through the crown attorney's office?

So, for now, H is still in custody. Gee... I guess he's missing a LOT of work hours. I wonder if he'll even have a job after this? (I'm on social assistance, so his working doesn't affect my income any. They deduct it from my monthly money anyways, since it's not enough to get me off of the system entirely).

Oh well.. as usual, I'll update when I can. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Karen

oh my god so much has been going on in your life right now but have you heard about the new girlfriend he has becouse I think I know you But I do know your ex best friend very will he say that your ex is in jail right now and that you know that gril you seen him with a xmas I think that is whan you see her will she is 5 months pregnany with his baby and I till her to leave he but she does not know what to say and I think he has not told is parsant about the new baby on the way so we know each other more than we think we know .

please get back soon.

H is in custody until Friday sometime.

Apparently the delay has something to do with not getting in touch with his lawyer. That, and that he must get a "surety" to sign responsibility for him before he gets let out on bail.

I will be able to get copies of all of this paperwork (as usual), so I'll know who that person is. I have a few guesses... first being FIL, next his gf, and third, buddy guy friend. Not that it matters who it is... but at least should I find out it's FIL, that will only prove the enabling all the more.

Karen

p.s. looking for you 2223... please see a post I've made especially for you.