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I can't beleive my husband won't do anything about our problems. He had decided that time will fix everything. I see him pushing things under the carpet. I have tried everything I know to impact our situation. We have been married four miserable years and I've had it. I think he is having an affair now. He has these female "friends" that he constantly puts before me and our marriage needs. We are not sexually involved and barely can communicate but by notes to one another. I feel I didn't sense God's approval to marry him and am now afraid to divorce him, maybe acting again outside God's will. I'm thinking a lot about having an affair recently --I know its wrong. I just can't see living without love and affection indefinately. God created us to be intimate creatures. Help!
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Did you post anywhere else? I would try posting in other places as well to get more responses.
Go to "Just Found Out" and read the sermon I put there "Holy Sex."
You need to read all about His Needs/Her Needs. No, you don't have a true marriage if your H is putting all his needs before yours.
Go read the info on this web site and see if you can get your H to read as well and keep posting. Sometimes you don't get as many responses as you would like, but keep trying.
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