I am looking for any FWH or FWW's that are doing well in recovery. I would like to hear your stories and your thoughts as to how you came to realize that your affairs were not what you wanted anymore, or that they were illusions or just not meant to be.

Also, looking for suggestions on how to hang in there for the long haul in Plan B.

I would appreciate any help you can provide.

ABF

Me - 34
WH - 33
D-Day 07/16/03
Plan A - 07/19/03
Plan B - 08/03/03
kids - 3 kids