Hi STBX. Logged on today to check on you. I am in the middle of huricane destruction (southeastern VA) and have no power still at home but do at work. I know how horrible it is to have your kids around OW. During the hurricane I was in NYC for business. I had to call my WH to check on the kids (he now lives with with OW). I hated that my children were being cared for by OW during a major disaster. So I told him that. He said, "for your information, she isn't even here. She went to a football game out of state with friends and family." The funny thing was I was then like, "HOW DARE SHE ABANDON MY FAMILY AT A TIME LIKE THIS!!" It's all crazy stuff. Best of luck with your Plan B. I think it will make you feel better.

DIJ

Hi Dueinjan,
Thanks for replying. How are you? Divorce in process?

I have an aunt who lives in VA and was not very prepared. But she's ok. How are you? Hope everything is ok considering all the damage done with the hurricane.

Well yes, started plan b. He kept saying that he wants to work things out but did nothing about it. And acctually wanted me to keep it a secret. Can you believe that!?!?!? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

Wrote my plan b letter and that's it. I'm pretty ok with everything. Acctually I feel better not having to talk to him. Not always trying to "figure things out" or wondering where he was or who he was with or what he was doing.

I'm ok. At peace really. Trying to go on with my life. Wanted to buy a home but can't until the divorce is final! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> UGGHHH!! But gives me more time to save up more money. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Please keep me posted.

Talk to you later.

Hi Dueinjan,
Thanks for replying. How are you? Divorce in process?

I have an aunt who lives in VA and was not very prepared. But she's ok. How are you? Hope everything is ok considering all the damage done with the hurricane.

Well yes, started plan b. He kept saying that he wants to work things out but did nothing about it. And acctually wanted me to keep it a secret. Can you believe that!?!?!? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

Wrote my plan b letter and that's it. I'm pretty ok with everything. Acctually I feel better not having to talk to him. Not always trying to "figure things out" or wondering where he was or who he was with or what he was doing.

I'm ok. At peace really. Trying to go on with my life. Wanted to buy a home but can't until the divorce is final! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> UGGHHH!! But gives me more time to save up more money. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Please keep me posted.

Talk to you later.