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Thanks for your help - I will try the search option!
It’s great hearing from you. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> I’m really doing fine thank you! The sending of the NC letter was the best thing I could have ever done for me and my H, I’m so glad I did it. Before I've send the letter, I constantly felt if the ‘door’ was still open and not properly shut. Even while the friendship was ended nearly a full year ago (18 Sept), it still felt as if there was unfinished business in the air. The NC letter changed everything, it helped be cleared out many things and also some issues within myself. For the first time now I feel as if there is ‘closure’ on everything and that the ‘door’ is properly shut. Maybe it’s my imagination, but it feels if the ‘final cut off’ from my side from OM, also helped me ‘cut’ most of the thoughts and residual feelings I was still having for OM. Maybe it was his disappointing response on my NC letter which really opened my eyes to the ‘real OM’ and what I have seen was not good...not good at all. But on the positive side, it also helped me appreciate my dear H so much more!
Enjoy your weekend and have a great Friday! I have read about your camping plans this weekend, <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> so enjoy it! I can’t be ‘online’ this weekend (don’t have internet access at home) but I will check in again next week!
Best wishes,
Suzet
<small>[ September 12, 2003, 08:05 AM: Message edited by: Suzet ]</small>
