I posted this under crowds post about going to TOW site. But I think it deserves a thread of it's own.
Knowing you are a good wife/woman.
Hold your head high, don't let any man or OW make you feel low self esteem.
Never have to lower your standards, morals, values or panties to get a man!
Be the kind of woman with much to offer that makes him know he must marry you if he wants the ultimate prize and keep it!
Good women do not have to lie, cheat, steal and sneak to attract or keep a man!
Let's face it, there is hardly a woman alive who can't just throw it in a man's face and get laid.
How many OW get the man to want to be with them without being a push over?
How many UH here would admit if they only talked and no sex, would have gotten involved to point of wanting to leave wife? Not many I'd bet!
My H had to marry me to sleep with me! I didn't propose to him, he proposed to me!
If US and OP think it's the love of the century, why are you sleeping with each other before you take your vows?
Try no sex and see how long your soul mate sticks with you!
Men can have sex without even thinking about it, so why are these OP so sure they've hooked the US?
Men do not marry every woman they sleep with!
OW would be wise to remember, you're just another free piece of variety to most men.
If you're so hot, so righteous, keep your drawers on and see how much he loves you!
This is one wife here that did not and would not lower anything to catch a man. He had to respect me, love me and want me and marry me first for the wonderful woman I am!
If a relationship is based simply on what two people think is awesome sex, got news for them. It's the same with all couples at first, but eventually familarity sets in and then what do you do? Sex is still good, but that old tingle from newness wears off.
You better have a lot more to offer when it does!
Good women know their worth and wear it like a badge of honor!
LouLou
