I am worried that my wife will find all my postings. How can I remove them? I will not dissapear, but now is a pivitol point and I don't want anything to screw it up...such as her privacy being invaded. Thanks

<small>[ October 12, 2003, 03:35 PM: Message edited by: Neb ]</small>

Whoa there! Her privacy being invaded???? Now let's keep in mind that she's the one deciding to continue the affair...

Are you afraid she will see you hurting? Are you afraid she will see that people are supportive of you and your stance? Are you afraid of her seeing how upset and hurt you are - that you are reaching out for advice on a message board because you have nowhere else to turn to?

Come on, Neb - this here is the truth. Maybe reading it would actually help her. It helped me. I came here before I confessed to my H. And the reality of what people were saying - BSs, WSs, etc. helped me to see that my situation was not as unique as I had thought. That I really was focussed on myself, and hurting my H.

Now, that being said <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> ......you can delete by clicking on the pencil and paper icon at the top of the post. This will allow you to edit the post, and then you can delete your words. If you want the entire threads deleted, I believe you have to get the moderators to do that.

Think about this for a while before you do it.....

Neb, does she know your name on this forum? Is that how she would find your posts? If so, you can go to 'my profile' and change your screen name. It will change the name on ALL of your previous posts.

Maybe you are right. I will think about it for now. I am getting tired of walking on egg-shells.