Hmmm..... Maybe the other marriage is not that bad off. How do I know for sure?? I don't. The OM is a liar, he has been decieving his wife for years. Alas, my WW is his equal in that regard.

I will continue with plan A even if WW does not break off the affair. The purpose of plan A is, after all, to convince the WS to end the affair.

I have to own up to my part in the deterioration of the marriage and try to do my best to restore things. I know that I am not responsible for her decision and that whatever things I did or failed to do, I did NOT deserve this. I probably deserved to be dragged to a marrriage couselor or to a marriage renewal weekend, but NOT this. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />