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Wow,JazzeyGirl.
What a story.A real life Fatal Attraction I suppose.I hadn't heard your story before but I sure do admire your strength in your post.I am like that myself.I want for my kids to see a strong woman too despite my WH horrible acts.My oldest daughter called me her "soldier" one night.I was so proud!
I don't know your whole story but I hope for you that everything turns out for the best,however that may be.Congratulations on your new baby boy!!
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Jazzey,
First of all, HUGE congratulations on your baby boy. I'll bet he's adorable!
I'm sickened by your H's defense of OW in his letter to the judge. How did he expect you to react to it? First she has and A with your H and attempts to destroy your marriage, then tries to kill him. Now he wants sympathy for her. Does he understand POJA at all? Because I can't imagine why he'd think you could possibly agree with this letter.
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Congratulations on your new baby!!
Was your H supportive while you were going through the 18 hours of hard labor and afterwards? How does he seem affected by the baby?
I know that last time both of you were posting you were in a pretty bad way but took all of our advise to not do anything until after the baby was born...maybe you're right maybe now is the time to do something for you and your kids.
A couple of questions first. Did your H ever go to IC like he indicated in his last posts? Did the two of you go to MC?
Have you been into IC? If not I would recommend it prior to making any final moves.
Lastly...have you given any thought to doing a Plan B prior to going straight to separation and divorce?
I am so sorry to hear about his letter to the OW!!! You deserve better then to have him make excuses for her!!!
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Wow - I don't know your whole story, except whats on this post. I really feel for you, especially with a brand new baby - It should be the best time of your life, with all the support from your H, not this.
All I know is that you can only be hurt so many times before it's too much. I will definately be praying for you in the resolution to this situation. Do your best to put a lot of focus on healing yourself, and keeping the baby healthy, amongst all of this turmoil. He (the baby) needs that out of you.
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