Well after a few days of monitoring the situation via email accounts...I have not seen any contact...but I know he has at least one more account that I do not know the password to...I am debating about asking him to tell me all the accounts he has and the passwords. I know that he can just lie to me again and hold some back or not tell me about some....but I just am soooo unsure if he has just moved his contact to another account. The OW last day at work is Friday!!!!!! I am thinking that that is when this will heat up since there will not be that contact at work...but she can always call him at work and I would never be able to tell...

I was thinking about the email spy programs....but I am no computer expert and my DH IS a computer expert LOL!! It is what he does and he is good at it. Does anyone have any info or experience with these types of things???

I called verizon today to see if I could get itemized phone bills to show outgoing calls and they said the only way to get them is to change to metered service and pay by the call.

I know I am driving myself crazy with this ....but I just need to know he is not still lying to me.

Any input would be appreciated.