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#1102933 12/12/03 09:07 AM
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I am trying to bring back what we had in the beginning, believe me. But, something happened last night that is now bothering me.

During love making I felt sick, nauseous. I did not want him to kiss me or touch me. Why? Is this normal?

I admit that I think about the man from my past all throughout the day, because thinking about him helps me forget about problems at home.

Is this what is causing me not to concentrate on my marriage, or do I not love my husband anymore. I have not called the OM since Nov 18th,I have not seen him since 1999, so there is nothing there actually, but the fantacy of what if.

I am working on my marriage I have decided to try and make the first step as adviced to me. But after last night I dont know what that means. Has this happened to anyone. Is it a stage.

33 y/o
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married 7 years together 9

#1102934 12/12/03 09:21 AM
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You may not have seen him since 99 but if you have just given up talking to him then your likely still in some stage of withdrawl.

It sounds like your conversations and continued contact have placed you in an emotional affair.

No contact meens just that.

Unless i read your question wrong and you have been in No Contact with OM since 1999.


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