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It's been 19 months since I found out WH was in fact having an A. This coming Wednesday marks 2 years since he broke my arm when we were arguing about OW.
I realize that the abuse is an issue, but I feel that we are working through that. I just am getting nowhere in getting over the A, and I don't know how anyone can get over it and move on.
Can anyone give me insight into this? How do you get past an A?
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">How do you get past an A? </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">A lot of your recovery and getting past the A depends on your husband.
What is he doing (in his actions) to help you in your recovery and getting past the A?
Susan
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i choose to move beyond it and i understand it's a process that takes time.
remember, an affair is a symptom of a marriage in trouble and not the cause.
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