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Joined: Dec 2003
Posts: 14
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I am having a hard time depositing into my WH love banks. I feel I give and he just takes. I have been giving him all my time and he just ignores me, but then wants sex in the middle of the night. I am having a hard time giving in to that. I feel so used. If I give him sex he just continues the next day being grumpy and distant. I am feeling so down. I want to know what his intentions are for this relationship. Is that wrong? Should I just give in to what he wants and hope he eventually comes around? It just brings me down thinking I am the only one trying.
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Hi Lost,
Can you give us some more background info,like how old you both are,any kids,when was d-day,is there still contact with OP,etc.Then maybe we can give you some adequate advice.
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Joined: Dec 2003
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Sorry, My WH has been having an EA for about two month. I took his phone away so he could not contact this OW. I don't know who she is. He is lying to me constantly. I asked that he not contact her. He said he couldn't because I took away his phone. I just found out he went and bought another phone. I am so upset. He says he is trying to work on our marriage by being intimate with me, but I just feel he wants his cake and eat it too. He is still having contact with her. He started seeing a counselor, but since he is still contacting her this doesn't mean much too me.
Lost
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