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I have been here for too long. W continues on weekly team with ONS partner. It was intense EA for probably 6 months but now two years later has
weakened considerably I believe. He is 11 years younger and not interested in anything I feel certain. But W still not willing to commit to marriage and mentions owning a bar and/or joining another team in addition to this team. I interpret that as joining another team with same OM on it. While I have waivered in many areas I have been firm about only 1 night a week out and also that I will never own a bar.
I am wondering if this EA is what is causing all her irrational thoughts or is it MLC or even worse. It seems for all I've/we've been through it still isn't over and time to rebuild. We still spend lots of time together and she considers me her best friend and confidant. In fact she confessed to me the ONS shortly after it happenned and I know she is very remorseful. But she has no understanding of EA (convenient right) and just thinks God puts people in your life for a reason. I just want peoples opinion on what I might be dealing with and is there anything I can do to help? I have fought and fought about the phone calls but can't win that battle. While it screams for Plan B I have never had the courage to take this path. Welcome your thoughts and support.
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