eemd....

its getting so bad that my wife leaves the kids home alone. i know if i go and file for custosy that will be big lb. she work with this guy and as long as she there it will be longer.

she is mad she will not let me see the kids when i go to he place she will not let the kids come to the door or let me in.the om tell her all of this stuff to do to me sometimes if i go ther she will tell me she is going to call the cops.the om does not live with her. i expose the affair to family and friends and she even got madder

i talk to wife today and she tell me that i cannot come to 5s birthday because she does not want me around her. what shall i do.

then if i go to her place she will not open the door or let me in. sometime she will not let me see the kids when she get mad

its not to get revenge.my kids are seeing there mom come home late every day from work. when this some she would not do i would be only telling my 15 year old d. they see things diffrent now i could to see them to day and they had no food just think if i didnt go there they would of been wait for there mom to get home and who knows how late that would have been.

she told my daugther iam not a good father and so on to make her look like she the good one. what shall i do.


please listen...

ANY INTERVENTION YOU HAVE TO DO ENSURE THE SAFETY OF YOUR CHILDREN...AND CHILDREN'S SAFETY INCLUDES SUPPLYING THEM WITH A CONSISTANT ENVIRONMENT CONSISTANT WITH MIMIMALLY ONE ADULT ACTING LIKE AN ADULT AND PUTTING THEIR NEEDS ABOVE ANY OTHER ...
KEEPING THEM SAFE AND HAVING THEM KNOW THAT ONE ADULT CARES ABOUT THEM....

HAS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WHAT SO EVER WITH BEING A LOVEBUSTER TO YOUR IDIOTIC WIFE.....

YOU CAN NOT SACRIFICE THE CHILDRENS SAFETY AND NEED FOR BOUNDARIES AND A CARING ADULT OVER YOUR OWN FEAR OF LOVEBUSTING YOUR WIFE....

YOUR CHILDREN AND THEIR NEED FOR NO CHAOS IN THEIR LIVES IS SOOOOOO WAY MORE IMPORTANT THAT ANY TYPE OF LOVEBUSTING ON THIS PLANET...

1. Drive to your home and become care taker of your children if your wife is out...be kind and polite...leave when she gets home...
2. get to legal aide if you have to and establish concrete official visitation.
3. document each attempt to see the children that she block...tape phone conversations in which she denies you access..
4. go through the fifteen year old to establish contact...
5. get your children a cell phone so they can reach you at all times...
6. stock the house with food...healthy snacks...things the kids can have access to...
7. document everything....

You think you are losing your wife...but the ones who are losing in this insanity is your children...
stop the insanity that is touching their lives...
I am begging you....

let go of your fears and be a DAD....

sorry for yelling but dude...you aren't listening...
ARK

<small>[ January 14, 2004, 11:13 AM: Message edited by: ark^^ ]</small>

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by ark^^:
[QB] eemd....

its getting so bad that my wife leaves the kids home alone. i know if i go and file for custosy that will be big lb. she work with this guy and as long as she there it will be longer. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Why are your children still with her? Are you not willing to parent them when she won't?

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