I am the WH of "Keeping the Faith". I have not entirely felt comfortable with "Marriage Builders" forum. Particularly with the opinions about me the WH. I am sure this sounds defensive, but I need to add some information that might give a different point of view. As far as myself and possibly my wife have been stuck in a major rut with substance abuse. I will just say that it comes from way South of the border. I am very frustrated with our life. Though we live well, we became more distant from each other. We did not share time away together, not even to have drinks at a local pub. So being mad at our past and current situation, I found someone new to share time with and as you guys say "Fulfilled my emotional needs." With out getting deep into this relationship. My question for now is "Does anyone think that I could possibly have some major issues, that keeps me from making any definite decisions? Continuing on and following the same path, tearing up everything I had planned with my wife. That unintentionally continues to keep hurting. I ask for your opinions. Signed Desperado

<small>[ January 13, 2004, 10:03 PM: Message edited by: Keepin' the Faith ]</small>