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In reading SAA, I am wondering, can kids love bust? In the book he speaks about judging and this being a love buster. I don't speak to my wife (plan b), but my children do. They ask her to come home, they pray for her to come home her presence, and they tell her how they pray publically in church for her to come home. I think she takes this as me influencing them and in turn becomes more angry with me (emptying her love account). I cannot tell the kids to stop. This may be just adding to the fact that she won't be coming home. It's been 6 full months going on 7.
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No one else can love bust for someone else.
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solon,
Your kids have every right to tell WW how they feel regardless of how she "takes" it.My girls do the same like asking WH to come home,we miss you,why do you have to be away,etc.I don't think that's love busting,the kids are just expressing the pain they are enduring with the absence.
If your kids are relatively young like mine(9&12)they don't fully understand what is happening in depth.They just know that they miss their mom and they want her to come back home so everything can be "normal" again.
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