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What can I do now
#1107814 01/18/04 08:01 PM
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I have benn in plan A for a week now. My W seems to be getting closer and closer to me every day. She even tells me she knows we could work things out that we can move forward. She only tells me this. WW is currently out with OM. She wanted me to come over after she was done with him. What DO I DO???
She Tells me she is closer to me know than OM. She says she feels that this is the life she wants(the M). We heave been spending a lot of time together. OM is just a besket case,will not stop calling. WW tells me that hes is freaking out over her becoming more distant to her. I dont know what to believe any more.
I guess actions speak louder than words>
Re: What can I do now
#1107815 01/18/04 08:12 PM
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Hi,brosco:

So sorry to see you're here, but glad you found us!

Have you read all the Concepts associated with this site? It sounds like you've got a pretty good handle on Plan A.

My advice is to continue to do what you're doing. It's working! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Time ALONE will end the A. Your W is apparently learning about how "needy" OM is. I guess she found that "attractive" at first. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

Just keep meeting her EN's as only you know how! OM is only in it for himself, NOT her....and as time goes on, she will see this more and more clearly.

You are in a good place, brosco. She's seeing the "light" very early in this thing. Lots better than a lot of us!

Good luck in your Plan a, and God Bless,

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