I saw your note to me on cerri's thread in JFO. She came back today....but might not get a chance to get to you for a few....so I'd be glad to look in on you. Or if you'd like...you're welcome to write to my email....just let me know, because I'm looking for your thread and can't find it LOL. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Hey Star,

Here's the link to her thread.

Shugah's Thread

I sent her over there to Cerri and told her to expect you might be standing in for C while she's away.

I know you guys will take good care of her.

Hi, thanks for the replies.

Cerri did reply over on JFO

I tried to be brief, but how do you sum up 13 months of roller coaster!

Anyways, I hope it's enough for her to get the gist of it. I'm sure she's heard it all before!

Sparkle, if you can sum it up for her, where I'm at, have at it!
I'm exhausted!

Hey Shugah!,

I read your synopsis over on JFO...and cerri's responses (which as usual are fab). I wouldn't respond at all EXCEPT...in so many respects you are living alot of my life. My husband has worked on the road. We have probably been physically separated for at least half of my marriage. I have two kids in college....and then my little surprise who is in first grade. My H has had two As....neither one was supposedly "about me" or about love either for that matter. So you see....we have some serious parallels.

Let me echo a few things that cerri said:

1st affair....major problem...no recovery plan after.

job....major contributor to the failure of your marriage. How can you fill any damn thang if you don't see eachother?

quasi Plan B's are a waste of time

Here's a few more questions....I know you're exhaused (me too!) but how long were you in Plan A? And why not negotiate financially without divorcing?

Please email me anytime....I haven't been on the board too much. starfish4729@hotmail.com For the life of me....I can't remember who you used to be.....I know I'm going to feel stupid once you tell me though! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Embarrassed]" src="images/icons/blush.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />