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Happy Birthday To Me...I'm Still In Plan B!
#1108503 01/23/04 05:48 AM
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Happy Birthday To Me <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
Happy Birthday To Me <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
I'm Still in Plan B... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />
Happy Birthday To Me <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" />

Yeah, contrary to an earlier post, WH is still not willing to work on the M. This birthday, I thought would be spent in recovery.

Wrong.

Anyway, Happy Birthday to Me!
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#1108504 01/23/04 06:14 AM
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Happy Birthday ISgirl. I hope you will treat yourself to something nice today.

How are you doing in Plan B? Mine is very peaceful.
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Believer,

Yeah, I think I WILL treat myself to something wonderful.

My Plan B was peaceful as well. I was in it for the 2nd time. Then WH came home in December for a week...but only to be with me while I had surgery. Silly me, I believed it was the start of recovery, but as soon as I was able to be on my own, he fled again.

Setbacks are not easy.
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Happy Birthday!!!
(((((HUGS))))

I wish you were spending it in recovery too!

But hang in there, you are doing good!!

Do something special for yourself! Wish I were there, I'd take you out for something chocolate and yummy!!
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Mine tried the same thing. You are right. Setbacks are difficult. I took me a whole month to get back into Plan B.

But I did promise myself to treat myself better from now on. You do the same. Do something special, just for you today.
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Happy Birthday, ISGirl!!! Do something lovely for your birthday. And then find some time for silliness after having a wee bit too much sugar.
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Happy BDay from the SFBayArea ... you will survive & thriving no matter what happens.

-rh-
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OK...shamelessly bumping, just to get more attention! LOL!
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Bless your heart, I hope your birthday was a little happy at least! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Birthdays are never as happy as when we were children!

Just think how nice it will be tomorrow, when your birthday is over!!!
Love, Julie <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
Take a long hot candlelit bubblebath and eat something fattening, like an ice cream sundae!
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<img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> Happy Birthday to you! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

I hope you did something fun and nice for yourself and I hope some of that nice was chocolate cake, ice cream. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> I wish you could have had your birthday the way you hoped for.

<small>[ January 23, 2004, 09:13 PM: Message edited by: No2nos ]</small>
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IS Girl

Been lurking on the Plan B'ers thread for awhile. You started a good thing!!

Happy Birthday to you!!!

Hope

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