This was originally posted by Coyote on another post. Thought I would move it.
Don't know if I'm in the right area or not since this is my first time posting, but I have a question.
My h moved in with OW in Oct 03. We've been married 24 years. H and I have kept in some contact by phone and in person. About two weeks ago, he wanted to meet me for lunch to talk about taxes. Well, taxes never came up, so I asked him why he wanted to meet me. Said he wanted to see me. Since that meeting, we've meet probably four other times.
I confronted him this week about me moving on with my life. He then told me he still loves and misses me. We're both going to different counselors. At first he refused to see one, but I went anyway. After a month of my counseling sessions, he decided to go to one too. Well, yesterday I left a message on his cell phone and he never called back, which he normally returns his calls. Anyway, he called me this morning, so I asked him if what he'd told me earlier in the week was nothing but lies. He said no, and that he was considering moving into his own place.
I guess what I'm asking is: Should I believe what he's telling me about possible reconciliation or do you think he's just telling me what he thinks I want to hear? Right now I'm just so confused. I'm taking one day at a time. Could it be possible he's going through a mid-life crisis? Any replies will be appreciated.
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