Hey Guys, my wife and I have been apart for about 4 months. I thought I found out that she was having her affair still (I am not absolutely sure but I did suspect that it was still going on) Gut feeling. Well my wife and I now do not want to speak to each other and it has been 6 weeks. She is afraid that I will remove the children from the home because of what may or may not be going on. How do you begin a dialog with both people mad at the other. I can talk to her through her mother if I want. I am just not sure I want to but, I do not want to lose her for good.