Hey guys, you may or may not know our story. I discover my wifey poo's affair and was blindsided. So was everyone that knows us. Wifey poo went to shelter for women because she thought that I would take our children, which I would have if she had continued the affair in our 7 year old daughters bed anymore, and she had no money since it was in my account. In the shelter she is surrounded by women that have been abused. That is not the case with my wife however she said it was that or the homeless shelter and this one was better I guess. In the shelter there are many battered wifes and people escaping a violent home. The counselors talk with all of the ladies in the shelter in a nightly meeting and from what she tells me bash men. They tell them to leave, do not look back and never try to save your marriage. The problem is even though she was absolutely not abused she is now beginning to listen and believe the counselors and her other house guests <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> and is beginning to bash men. Even though she simply went there to leave our home to continue her affair. So the question is how do you neutralize that constant bombardment from her new shelter buddies and counselors at their group. Can it be done and if so how?