Chris, just wanted to let you know I gave my W the letter and it rocked her temporarily but she gathered herself and started the usual justification. But it did lead to more honest discussion about how bad the ONS hurt me and how the continue contact hurts. I was able to deliver very specific recollections that I'm sure got her attention. Things that she thought she was only feeling but in fact were very obvious. She wasn't able to deny any of it. I recalled how the night she left the house to "get into her head" and returned to tell me she went shopping. I told her the minute she left the house my 15 yr old son had to keep telling me Daddy don't call her, don't call her, seeing how agitated I was. I told W she called OM 4 times upon leaving the house. While she doesn't respond to these kind of facts I know it is starting to sink in.

I really just wanted to thank you for the push. I have a scheduled call with Steve Harley on Monday and am also very determined never to participate in this group again. You and many others have given me the strength I need to do what is so painfully obvious to everybody esle.

Thanks
WOE

Chris, I know you say my Harley report but I wanted you to see this as well. While I had a lot of help here you as much as anyone else pushed my over the top. I'm sure I have quite a ways to go but am more confident about recovery than I have ever been.

WOE