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#1110763 02/06/04 02:01 PM
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THE BRICK

A young and successful executive was traveling down a neighborhood street, going a bit too fast in his new Jaguar. He was watching for kids darting out from between parked cars and slowed down when he thought he saw something. As his car passed, no children appeared. Instead, a brick smashed into the Jag's side door! He slammed on the brakes and backed the Jag back to the spot where the brick had been thrown.

The angry driver then jumped out of the car, grabbed the nearest kid and pushed him up against a parked car shouting, "What was that
all about and who are you? Just what the heck are you doing? That's a new car and that brick you threw is going to cost a lot of money. Why did you do it?"

The young boy was apologetic.
"Please, mister...please , I'm sorry but I didn't know what else to do," He pleaded. "I threw the brick because no one else would stop..." With tears dripping down his face and off his chin, the youth pointed to a spot just around a parked car. "It's my brother," he said. "He rolled off the curb and fell out of his wheelchair and I can't lift him up." Now sobbing, the boy asked the stunned executive, "Would you please help me
get him back into his wheelchair? He's hurt and he's too heavy for me."

Moved beyond words, the driver tried to swallow the rapidly swelling lump in his throat.
He hurriedly lifted the handicapped boy back into the wheelchair, then took out a linen handkerchief and dabbed at the fresh scrapes
and cuts.

A quick look told him everything was going to be okay..

"Thank you and may God bless you," the grateful child told the stranger. Too shook up for words, the man simply watched the boy push his
wheelchair-bound brother down the sidewalk toward their home.

It was a long, slow walk back to the Jaguar.
The damage was very noticeable, but the driver never bothered to repair the dented side door. He kept the dent there to remind him of
this message

"Don't go through life so fast that someone has to throw a brick
at you to get your attention!"

God whispers in our souls and speaks to our hearts. Sometimes when we don't have time to listen, He has to throw a brick at us. It's
our choice to listen or not.


Read this line very slowly and let it sink in...
If God brings you to it, He will bring you through it.

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#1110765 02/10/04 01:07 AM
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Jazzey Girl - working on that .. still trying to personally glue back the "old" one... but if it doesn't work then ... a New one doesn't sound that bad either.. LOL <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

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Your story was thought provoking! We can all learn from it. Thank you for sharing it.

But, in your comments at the end you seem to say that the A and the pain is a gift from God. If so,
I strongly disagree!

God has created us with a free will. And this will would not be free if he immediately removed the consequences of our choices and actions. Thus when I or someone else chose to do evil against someone, than evil will come out of it.

The free will is our mark of nobility. We are created in the image of God. So when we fall we have a long way to fall!

The A is against Gods will, as clearly stated in the Bible.
When I or someone else chose an A, our S is hurt terribly. This is not Gods will! Having an A is a sin. David was a man loved by God. Still when he had an A, God's reaction was very firm.

God has the power to turn everything to the good. An A is the result of the chooses of two people. He can turn an A into good for both the WS and the BS. But do not make this truth into a false testimony against God. He will no sin! The A was not from Him. On the contrary, he has forbidden us to have an A.

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Frank - I agree whole heartedly .. I didn't write the story just re-posted it .. it was given to me as a emotional support type of thing. It's kind of funny you say that though ... One of the letters the OM wrote my wife included the phrase " I'm so glad God brought us together" LOL yeah that's what God wanted, You to commit adultry with your neighbor ... Sorry got off on a rampage .. anyways I do agree with you. L&C

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L&C! What is going on? How are things going? How's WMWB? What's new with you two? Haven't heard from you all in a while.


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