Could really use some advice on what to do next, because I finally got some more proof last night of what WH has been up to...
Quick story of us: d-day Dec. 1, WH admits only to "kissing" OW, who was friend of mine and former daycare provider. Says he wanted to get my attention, but "nothing was supposed to happen." Last caught him in a blatant lie on Xmas Eve, but intuition says there are a lot more. It took nearly a month to get him to NC, but wasn't sure it was real, and as of last night, I know it wasn't.
I drove by WH's place of employment, because he'd been staying later for work lately, and I wanted to check up...turned into the parking lot and drove by his car, went to the end of the row and did a quick u-turn, only to see reverse lights on a vehicle near WH's...the van backed out and left quickly, but not so quickly that I didn't see it was OW's...!!! My thought is that he was in there with her, but don't know for sure...I was just shocked at the time, because I wasn't looking for her, and if she hadn't backed out, I wouldn't have seen her! Strangely enough, I was quite happy at my discovery, because WH has been insisting that I'm paranoid, he's told me everything (mostly "I don't know" and "I don't remember"...), blah blah fog-speak.
MB has been so helpful for the last 2 1/2 months, but now I'm at a point where I think I just want out...does this mean it's Plan B time? If it weren't for 2 Ds, I would be gone already.
I've been advised to act as if nothing is wrong, hire a PI and get some "real" evidence. Any advice from you MBers would be much appreciated.
