I brought something over to my daughter's last night and his cell phone wasn't in the truck. He's been keeping it there because when I am by the cell phone I check if she calls him or vice versa. When I walked in it was on the counter. I saw him glance where it was. Later he went to wash my grandson and low and behold, the phone was gone. I was p i _ _ ed. He wants to come home by the end of the month and has to do a sneaky thing like that. And I went in and told him. He said he knows I check the phone so that is why he did that. I said he will never change, he will always sneak and lie, if he wasn't hiding anything he would have left it right where it was. How can I ever trust a man like that. I don't think the end of the month will make a difference. And I told him so. I can't afford to go through this again. All this stress has taken a damper on MY heart condition and the stress of him coming home and doing something again might really do me in, so I have to think this through thoroughly. And I told him that. He still insists I won't have anything to worry about when he comes home, and yet he feels he is not ready yet. He's with her since Jan 3, will he ever be ready?????? Shouldn't he just cut it now and get his [censored] home to his family. I'm getting mad now with this waiting. He comes over here to do a couple of things for me, I kept the grandchild yesterday while he went to the Dr. He ate lunch and supper her, went back to her house to shower before the Dr. and goes home to her house at night. I am feeling used at this point. He is paying her to cook for him and wash his clothes and room and board and half the time the guy seems starved. I have to make the right decision. I want him home, but sneaking that cell phone again bothers me. Should I ignore this episode??????????????? Do you really think a man can be TOTALLY honest when he sets a date like he is doing..... You would think I would be glad and wait patiently this time left but I'm more nervous and paranoid than ever......... WHY????????????

Lefty, WHY ARE YOU HERE? You are not listening to anyone here. Why do you think he doesn't want to come home? The first chance you got to follow the MB way, what do you do? You go LB Big Time. I would not be surprised if he doesn't come home. Look what he is coming home too! In one of your previous post you say, he tells you, it's quit there, he has a chance to relax... Don't you get it?????? Your not listening. You are driving him farther away from you. If he moved the phone, he obviously did it for a reason. Were you waiting for the first opportunity to check it? Look at your behaviour. Your making you situation worse by the minute. No, it is not fair he left "again". But you didnt change you, the first time. So don't be surprised if he does it once again and again and again....YOU ARE DRIVING HIM AWAY, DONT YOU UNDERSTAND? Either you start listeining to what the people here are telling you, or you will be here asking us the same question 10 years from now.

Lefty, WHY ARE YOU HERE? You are not listening to anyone here. Why do you think he doesn't want to come home? The first chance you got to follow the MB way, what do you do? You go LB Big Time. I would not be surprised if he doesn't come home. Look what he is coming home too! In one of your previous post you say, he tells you, it's quit there, he has a chance to relax... Don't you get it?????? Your not listening. You are driving him farther away from you. If he moved the phone, he obviously did it for a reason. Were you waiting for the first opportunity to check it? Look at your behaviour. Your making you situation worse by the minute. No, it is not fair he left "again". But you didnt change you, the first time. So don't be surprised if he does it once again and again and again....YOU ARE DRIVING HIM AWAY, DONT YOU UNDERSTAND? Either you start listeining to what the people here are telling you, or you will be here asking us the same question 10 years from now.