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Well not to toot my own horn ...but I do these things.... I have read these "Promises for Marriage" the other day and thought it would be a nice idea to share it here on MB and start a "Marriage builder tips" thread for anyone who wants to share their ideas/tips!
PROMISES FOR MARRIAGE
1. Start each day with a kiss.
I kiss my beautiful self in the mirror each morning.... 2. Wear your wedding ring at all times.
I have to after the second pregnancy it's permenantly stuck on without major baby oil action to remove. 3. Date once a week.
4. Accept differences.
yes I'm special...he's different... 5. Be polite.
6. Be gentle.
7. Give gifts.
I always say thank you... 8. Smile often.
9. Touch.
yes very true...thats why they made hand santizers... 10. Talk about dreams.
yes this is true ...I always tell him about the dreams where we are on the cruise ship...and he mysteriously falls overboard... 11. Select a song that can be "our song".
I prefer the Stones...can't get no satisfaction song... 12. Give back rubs.
13. Laugh together.
does laughing at him count.... 14. Send a card for no reason.
15. Do what the other person wants before he or she asks.
16. Listen.
17. Encourage.
18. Do it his or her way.
well there is his way...and the right way...which too choose? which too choose...??? 19. Know his or her needs.
heehee I though that said know his knees.... 20. Fix the other person's breakfast.
I have thrown toast at him before... 21. Compliment twice a day.
I always say I look nice more than twice a day... 22. Call during the day.
I call him lots of things...during the day... 23. Slow down.
24. Hold hands.
25. Cuddle.
26. Ask for each other's opinion.
why???? 27. Show respect.
Oh I get respect...all queens do you know... 28. Welcome the other person home.
29. Look your best.
30. Wink at each other.
behind their back...or where they can actually see you?? 31. Celebrate birthdays in a big way.
32. Apologize.
ofcourse he does 33. Forgive.
34. Set up a romantic getaway.
yes I light candles in the laundry room for him when he is down there folding clothes... 35. Ask, "What can I do to make you happier?".
I don't understand what that has to do with anything.... 36. Be positive.
37. Be kind.
kind of what.... 38. Be vulnerable.
I know where he is vulnerable... 39. Respond quickly to the other person's request.
40. Talk about your love.
41. Reminisce about your favorite times together.
42. Treat each other's friends and relatives with courtesy.
43. Send flowers every Valentine's day and anniversary.
44. Admit when wrong.
I will as soon it happens... 45. Be sensitive to each other's sexual desires.
46. Pray for each other daily.
47. Watch sunsets together.
what if you are sleeping when it sets... 48. Say, "I love you" frequently.
49. End the day with a hug.
Oh God our clothes would stick together from all the playdough and chocolate the kids smear on us... 50. Seek outside help when needed.
yes...rotorooter....carpet cleaners...and plumbers...all in the book... Suzet...I love the list...
I just couldn't help myself...
sorry....
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