Since my husband told me about a woman he was in love with but never had an affair with since she said she was not interested in him like that, we have come together understanding why this happened and he is still in our home. They have had no contact (she is in another state, but they had been conversing via e-mail and cell phones) for the past two weeks. My problem is that I don't understand how he could be ready to leave me so easily if she had been interested and will he still do it. I have been just sitting back and watching how he has been treating me during all this and I keep telling myself this will take time, I can't expect him to be to interested since he is morning the OW. I am feeling a bit quilty because I am feeling I need some space, but afraid to take it for fear he will contact the OW after all this time. This is driving me crazy. Any advice?

He needs to have NC with her or he will not get over her. Stay in Plan A.