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WS foggy messages... Please post some you have heard
#1113033 02/19/04 02:58 AM
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Since what I seem to be hearing over and over are some crazy things from WS's but the fogspeak is all so similar I thought we should compare notes.

For example, I have heard

I don't love you...
I haven't loved you for 10 years....
I love you like a sister, not like a wife...
I love you and her...
I feel guilty when I have sex with you it's like cheating on her and I feel guilty when I have sex with her it's like cheating on you.... (HELLO ON THIS ONE)

Okay I am sure I'll think of more to add... as I hope you all will. They are just so similar... it's spooking me out...

<small>[ February 19, 2004, 07:23 AM: Message edited by: heavenlee30 ]</small>
Re: WS foggy messages... Please post some you have heard
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We have something like that on the "In Recovery" board ... you might enjoy reading these and posting what you posted here.

Funny and interesting things WS say while in FOG
Re: WS foggy messages... Please post some you have heard
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Said just yesterday:

"I am kind of lonely that you can't go with me where I am going." (to an A)

"Maybe the problem is that we did everything together."

"Maybe its an independence thing."

"I can't keep pushing these feelings down."

"We haven't had passion and romance for six years."

Yeah, right.
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my personal favorite----LOOK HOW MUCH GOOD THIS HAS DONE FOR OUR MARRIAGE!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> (refering to his affair after d-day) and yes he lived after that one so cuddo's to me!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
Re: WS foggy messages... Please post some you have heard
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Yesterday at our MT session, I was talking about things that worked in our marriage. I said that we knew each other so well, that we often knew what the other was going to say, what they were thinking, and often said the same things at the same time.

WH agreed with me, but added his own perspective: "Yeah, we did do that, but I started realizing that it is because we always talked about the same stuff like the kids, finances, the house, shows we'd watched, things we'd done . . ."

It seems they have to put a negative slant on everything. It definately made me roll my eyes. Nobody saw, but I had to.

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