OK, now who cannot find whom??? Hmmmmm??? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

I IMed my digits into fatigue with Harudah all afternoon. She is calm now, and she went to bed a while ago. I hope she can sleep.

She posted, but also wanted me to tell you that she is OK, because she knows you are worried.

She has her doctor's appointment tomorrow morning for anti-d's, and she is going. Thank goodness.

And she is going to wait to buy a ticket until Wednesday. I asked her to wait until after she can talk to her doctor tomorrow, about her emotional health and such. She finally agreed.

I told her if I ever start acting in a way that makes a bunch of people post to me asking me if I am OK, that she needs to talk me down, too. She agreed. I'm glad I didn't have to start cyber-slapping her around. It was touch and go there for a while.

Anyway, I'm going to go call someone and let my fingers rest. I'll be back later, you know that. I am addicted! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

I still have to read all of Brett's story. I'll look up the other part later in Plan A/B. Thanks for hooking us up. He needs some humor and fun in his life. I'll see what I can do.

Love and hugs, Amy

Thanks for the update. She has been doing so well.

Yes Brett needs some fun and humor. He goes to work, gets the dog once a week and works on wife's car. That's it. He has to catch up with us and start having some fun.

I found a very long, but interesting post the other morning. I cannot remember where. It was not here. It was over in Emotional Needs or somewhere . . .

Anyway, it was about feelings, and Budda and God, and experiencing feelings. It was very enlightening.

I am trying to find it for Harudah. She seems very interested in it. I am having no luck. Do you know of a way I could search for it better?

Right now I am doing hit and miss, and I just don't have the time to do that for the next 15 days until I go through the entire site! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Thanks. Amy

I think it is the one in want my pookies thread, called "what am I doing wrong?". It is on the first page. I bumped it up.

Thanks, but that is not it. My impression was that it was written by a man. It was extremely long - EXTREMELY - and philisophical.

I remember I was up early one morning, and I'm pretty sure I went way out of these Infidelity boards, looking around. And I stumbled on this. I didn't even read it all. It was sooooo long.

And now I cannot find it. I feel like I am looking for a needle in a haystack. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

Do you know any searching techniques?

Don't mean to interupt your post.. wait yes I do <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

Is this what you were looking for

hope this is it

It is a couple posts down, I think it may be the one you are looking for.

There's another one about God and Buddha, I think Just J wrote in a post about plan B. Try looking up her profile and most recent posts.