is it too good to be true?
DH was in an A that lasted over two years. They only saw each other once a month when they met for business in a state that neither live in. When I found out,(5 weeks ago) he immediatly wrote a NC letter, showed me the responce and started MC (within 10 days) He got a new e-mail account, a new cell phone number and swears he has not heard form her. He is not doing business at that location any more so he has no reason to see her there. She is alo in a long term releationship besides this A.
She (OW) has a history of alcholism (currently sober) and is medicated for depression issues. But when he sent the NC letter she wrote back a very nice "stay with your wife and family I am sorry for the hurt we have caused them"
I keep having these feelings like the other shoe still has to drop.
Can it end that cleanly? DH seems committed to doing the work at rebuilding the marriage but I am always edgy wondering if it is real. The MC says take it one day at a time. I am on the rollercoaster and wondering about others experiences, most of the stuff I have read here makes this sound too good to be true!