Most of you know I'm considered an oldtimer here and my marriage has recovered completely from my H's affair...we are having a blast together now we really are.

But you know things happen from time to time and sure enough...I come home in the wee hours of the am (after working through the night on a film shoot) to see a MN phone number on our call display....ON OUR CALL DISPLAY!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> She had called twice at like 4am...no msg nothing.H had slept thru.
My H was just as shocked as I was - nothing showed up on his cell phone which was a surprise.

Anyhoo---I at first got upset, but when I realized H was just as confused as I was I realized he didn't know anything about it. I immediately called back - several times only to get in immediate pick up to her voice mail. I've since called a few times but only to get voice mail...

I KNOW MB die hards would say leave this alone..but it feels like I've been the victim of a hit and run and d**** it I'm not going to go down this road again. I won't keep phoning her, that would be just useless, but I did email her just to ask why she called. No response yet - probably never will get a response.

Thanks for letting me vent. I'm okay...just feeling like a Lioness protecting her Den if you know what I mean.... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />

(edited to add little mad faces!! tee hee)

<small>[ March 02, 2004, 01:08 PM: Message edited by: Alberta ]</small>

Vent acknowledged.

Now, don't call her back or e-mail her again! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />

You know better!!!!

From a practical standpoint - can you change your phone number?

WAT

If it happens again - we'll consider it I think. This was a really out of the blue thing..something that's never happened before. Okay - on to housework so I don't start dialing the damn phone!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Ooohh Alberta,

Glad to hear you are doing well but shoot those phone calls at 4am!?!?!?! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

I thought I was the only one whose OW calls after midnight!. YIKES!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />

Ok hon, if she calls again, give us the #. A few random calls from all across the country at all the hours of the day and night should keep her busy, 'eh? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

My after 9pm calls are free - he he he !!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

Hugz,
L.

Thanks Orchid - man that would be funny..

At any rate - this is the first time she has called our home. She was pretty careless as it showed up on call display and hasn't even attempted to reach my H on his cell or by email..so who knows what this was about. It has also been a VERY long time since we've had contact - well over a year.

I just resented that this one little thing caused me to doubt my H - briefly - but I did and man - we've come so far and I thought we were past all of that. He has been so supportive - lots of hugs and kisses and reassurance...what I guy...man I love him <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

BUT - vis-a-vis these "drive by phone calls" I'm one of those folks who "picks at scabs" you know, and I'm having a hard time just "letting this go". Hmmm...guess I better go shopping...but its so damn cold and snowy here I don't want to leave the house....

Thanks for your support.
Hugs
A