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what can a 34 yr old man have in common with a 18 yr old girl still in high school. my H is living with this 18 yr old and besides sex I just don't understand how they can be together what do they possibly talk about although my H is very immature so who knows. any insight would be appreciated.
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No 34 year old man can do what you describe. However, a 34 year old boy can do it quite easily.
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I would say pretty much sex....sorry I agree hard to see anything in common....
"How was you day dear?"
Well I had the radical harsh pop quiz then the cafeteria was serving salsbury steak, mashed potatoes and peas with carrots....I hate carrots. Then Micky the cheerleader trashed my locker saying was dating someone old enough to be her daddy. Old dude you aren't her daddy are you?"
Yep pretty much just sex.
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Ugh. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />
Well,let's see:cars,movies,food,clothes,bands,music,friends.
These are some things I used to talk about when I was 18.I don't know if your WH is talking about these things with this young girl but I do know that I would be extremely surprised if this "relationship" lasts for very long.She will get tired of him at some point.At least that's my opinion.
How long have they been together?
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Thank you for replying, that's pretty much what I thought.let me give you a brief on my situation.
I have been with my H since I was 16 we met when I was 14 I am now 29 so 14 yrs. H met this 18 yr old at work he was her boss, how the relationship started I really don't know. we were having probs and I guess he turned to her since she liked him. from what I heard she was writing him notes and poems and leaving them on his car. after her mom made her quit the job because she didn't agree with the relationship. Ow started to persue him at work and obviously he didn't mind, incase I forget to mention she has a 1 1/2 yr old son that at the time my H is supporting along with her. she does not work or drive and he takes her wherever he goes.I wonder how long they can actually last..
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Well given your last bit of info.
He like's the sex of an 18 year old.
And she like's her sugar daddy.
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I agree, they are 2 leeches feeding off each other. She will get tired of him, dump him, then he will whine all the way back home.
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