My story is in Plan/PlanB, Am I in plan A?

Since the A, H is not home very often, tension at home too. It affects my children a lot. D cries everyday and depress. Yesterday she said she wanted suicide(she is only 12). S behaves vey weird. School conselor said that he think mom had short temper, and dad is not home. Any one have similar situation? Any advice? What do do with them?

L&H

This stuff is very hard on children. I am glad now that I have done the Plan B because even though my eleven year old D isn't my WH kid, he has been here since she was 18 mo old. Every time she see's him it is painful all over again. Now she won't have to. You definitely need to get them into some intense counseling fast. Twelve year olds shouldn't even think about suicide, never mind talk about it. People who talk about it usually are the ones that do it. They are by far crying out for help in some way, so you need to help her the best that you can. Sometimes the school counseling is not the best thing, as other children see them going and they become labeled. I would recommend outside counseling, or best yet if you can get someone to come into your home. They say children talk better when they are in comfortable surroundings such as their own home or room. I also might have to take my children to counseling. I am watching them very carefully at this time. It is really a shame that the WS doesn't see the effect that they have on their own blood. Formerly hopelessinNY.

NY, I am glad that you are hoprful now. How is plan B?

I am looking for conselors now. I hope to find one soon. I will do everything on my own. WH even doesn't care. It really piss me off. I am losing my love now.

Well I just started Plan B this morning and got custody of my S also. My WH doesn't care either. Amy started a thread this morning with this very same topic. (She is spider slayer now)you might want to check it out.