(((Pep)))
Condolences to you at this time. Taking another walk in the valley of sorrow, this time with your mother. She is so fortunate to have such a caring, loving, wonderful daughter as you. I am very sorry.
The Letter is Beautiful! Heartwrenching!
Sadly, the tragic reality for many children. The parent simply doesn't care & has dv'd the children too. The sentiments are expressed. Words flow "I love you".
The children cry out don't tell me you love me & SHOW ME!
For some children it could well be a "who knows letter".
My daughter wrote her father a powerful moving letter, after he delivered another blow of sending an insane email to her about his new family. Totally, invalidating her.
Dr. Harley suggested my kids adopt an NC policy with him. They couldn't believe they had truly rejected them.
My friend's daughter wrote her wayward dad a powerful letter that a young 13 yr child could. Full of love, tenderness, but the reality of what he had done to them. No impact.
Now that she is 16, all the unconditional love and acceptance he received & took advantage of changed. The new recent letter was an account of his cold hearted acts.The destruction he had caused. Thinking he could slide in anytime.
This time the letter said until he sought professional help. Only his councelor would be permitted to contact her by email.Give her updates on his progress.
Not to try to contact her again until such time. Signed. Love your daughter. Ps don't bother sending gifts. They mean nothing.
Wish I had a copy before she mailed. Writen in love, and holding him accountable. Moving on completely with her life.
