WW moved into her new apartment on Thursday. She took all of her stuff when she moved. She attempted to come home twice before and there were things she left with OM, IE, a fold up table, an old chair, and our old bed. D's said she took everything and left OM a note.

I found out this weekend, OM has been seeing another woman. I don't know if this is why WW left him. They have had several big fights and I wrote about this in a different thread. I may have been wrong, but I did email this other woman that the OM is seeing and told her about his ways. Part of it was because I feel she deserved to know and the other bigger part was out of revenge for the OM. Anyway, I haven't made any contact with WW since she moved. She hasn't attempted to talk to me either. So, do I continue my plan B or should I try to talk to her. Maybe give her a housewarming present for her new home. I don't know what I should do... One part of me says do something and the other part says no. Please let me know what you think...

I would wait until she contacts you. Then you will see what her feelings are now. It's hard to wait, but right now she doesn't need to feel pressured.

I imagine she will attempt contact. It gets lonely living by yourself. In the meantime keep making changes in you and go on with your life.

This seems like a really positive sign.

OH WOW!!!

YOu see it's too TRUE! All the cheating, and lying.. "IT COMES BACK TO YOU"

YOu get want you root for!..... I am sad about your situation, but I'm happy at the same time. It's just a slap in the face to show ... how your WW is feeling the same kind of pain she puts upon you. The tables FLIP!

well big hugs.

I wouldn't contact her, she will contact you beleive me. she might have too much pride. And act like you do not know what happened wait till she tells you.

HUGS my brotha!

LWH,

Sit tight. She left OM, she may go back. She has before and she may again. One doesn't know. If there is to be any contact it should be her contacting you. Just because she left OM, it doesn't mean that you are back in her mind or thoughts.

Actually, the odds of that being true are very small. She is very likely going through withdrawal from OM, just as she had to withdraw from you. Once that is over she may make contact. At this point my guess is that any contact with her will be fruitless because he thoughts will be about the OM and their relationship.

You may come into her thoughts but it will only be after withdrawal. Further, you don't want her if it is only because "I have no other choice." If she lives alone for awhile, and then comes back it may be more about you, than just about her.

So I would let this one ride and see what happens. Continue plan b is my vote.

God Bless,

JL