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I ask myself this question everyday how can I love my H after all the shame and pain he has put me through. their are times when I feel like
I'm moving on and other times I can't even sleep with H on my mind all the time.
I can't explain why I even want to be intimate with him but it's almost like an addiction my body craves to be with him how disgusting is that knowing he's with an 18 yr old and living with her.all I want is one last night together with him how normal is this??
I wonder how hard it will be to try and suduce him. I must be insane......
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Joined: Jan 2004
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It's normal. Or maybe I'm abnormal too. Cuz I get the same thoughts about WW. Then again I'm a guy and it's been oh..almost 4months.
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I saw the term coined hyberbonding on another message board and thought it sort of hit the nail on the head.
There is a rush to recapture what was. Its sort of territorial. Also there is a heightened sense of how important the marriage and even the WS are.
Remember when the best love making was right after a knock down fight or an intense loving moment? Its because your emotions are charged.
Also by nature every spouse is territorial-that's my spouse and I claim her/him.
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Joined: Mar 2004
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Wife cheated for 6 months. I knew all along and let her hang herself. Have quite a bit of evidence if I want Divorce and seek 3 kids.
I'm still in love with her. She admitted to affair and want's to fix our marriage. We had great sex after I confronted her. Now she said she needs time. I've learned from this site that she does need time to get over the other person.
Questions: How long do I wait? While I need some answers and affection, I have to wait for her to forget the other person!!
Secondly, I'm still very sexually attracted to her and want her all the time. Shouldn't I be the opposite? Not wanting to be with her after she slept with someone else.
Lastly, This is my biggest problem....Why do I feel sexually turned on that she had sex with someone else??? I'm not sure if this is "normal"
I get excited thinking about what they were doing.
I feel uncomfortable thinking about it but can't help myself.
Help please..............
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