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I have a question that I think I should know but here goes anyway.Just how long does this depression that the WH have going to last?
and why do they have the depression.I know what I have read but I'm hoping that someone here can give me a little more ffed back on it.
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By depression do you mean before the A, or after the A is over and WH is in withdrawal?
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depression after the A. He told her last night that it WAS OVER and that he loved me.
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Oh what good news. If he continues to have NC with her, it should not last too long - maybe only 3 weeks. But you should ask him to write NC letter - something like this:
Dear OW -
I have decided to work on my marriage. I love my wife and want to work on my relationship with her. Please do not contact me for any reason.
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thanks for all the guidence you have showed me.I can't say I don't hurt but I know in time it will get better. KEEP PRAYING FOR ALL WS AND WB AS I WILL!!
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