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For some reason the wise ones, experienced MBers, on this site didn't give me any advice. Please, please I need some if you'd be so kind. If you'd read my post from yesterday about the love letters that would be great. Just read the 1st thing I wrote and the last, which has my questions. Our MC is tomorrow so I need your valuable advice. Thank You Much! Of course anybody's input is welcome too!
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Hi CV -
I did read your post - I'm surely not an experienced MB'er, but I'll give you my 2 cents.
I'd expose the letters in MC. I know it'll be hard, but you have the knowledge - it's going to be waaaaaaaaay too hard to hide it. Besides, what are you going to do to replace them? I guess you could try some Tom Cruise in MI:2 action (hanging from the ceiling so no one sees you). <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
I have the same situation going on over here, as I now have access to his email and their awful correspondence - I feel you on the sun, moon, and stars bulls***. They're disgusting to me to read. Make me physical ill. And yet I keep looking.....
Best of luck, and hopefully, you'll get some oldtimers to help you out.
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Wanting Him Back, I did something with those letters that was highly therapeutic. First off I shared some of the highlites with all of you. Then I called my good friend and read almost every one to her on the phone. I forgot to mention there was a theme of strawberries and bunny cards. Very weird. I'm not sure I want to know what that was about. Then I went out with SIL and we read them together. How weird is it to read love letters sent to H by the OW? Somehow laughing at them felt good. Try it sometime! CV
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